We are in the process of a large move and have been in this transition for almost 6 months. If I had known that this move was going to work out like this there is no way we would have done it. We have known since we moved to Ohio that the day would come when we would want to be closer to our families. That day came about a year ago. Joel and I decided that our boys did not know their grandparents, cousins, or other family members very well, and that we were missing out on so many things. So we decided that it was time to move. There was several things that I wanted to do in Ohio and in the East before we left the area, so I did not let Joel look for a job right away. By the end of summer we had done some neat things with our family and friends that I was ready to go.
Joel applied and was offered a job in Utah in a perfect spot, right between our families. We would be about 2 hours from both of our parents. We were excited. We went right to work and put our house on the market. This was the end of Sept. What we
discovered was that this was not the best time to try to sell our house.
Come Nov. Joel had to be in Utah to start his new job, I decided to stay in Ohio to try to sell the house, so I did not have to pull Devin from school, and because living in a 2 bedroom apartment with 3 little boys did not sound like fun. This was not a fun time for us or for Joel, he did get to fly back for Thanksgiving and then again at Christmas time. It was then that we decided that we were done being
separated and moved our family to Utah. We did move in to an apartment, I did pull Devin from school and we still had not sold our house.
I knew that this apartment living was only temporary and so I did not put Devin back in school. We began homeschooling. What an adventure. And to add to all of this our baby was due the 12 of March. I was looking for a new doctor and having to hassle with new insurance. Added to all this the relocation company told us our time in the apartment would be up on March 9
th and we needed to find other
accommodations for our family (our home in Ohio had still not sold, so we could not buy a new one). What stress!
I was able to chat with my doctor and convince him that I needed the baby to be a little early because we would be moving to Idaho to live with my parents until we were able to buy a house. He was very good to start us and as you can see from previous posts we were blessed with a beautiful healthy baby girl. And when she was 6 days old we move in with grandma and grandpa Wilson (thanks for the room).
Our home in Ohio did finally sell in Feb. and so now we were able to go ahead and make plans to buy a home in Utah. The home we found and negotiated a price on was sold while we were in the hospital to somebody else. So we began our search all over again. Now the boys and I were living in Idaho with my parents and Joel was living with his sister near his job. We were seperated again. Joel did join us on the week ends.
As we were getting closer to making an offer on another home the relocation company let us know that they were no longer paying for our things to be in storage and that we were now responsible for that expence. This move has not hardly had any thing good about it. During this time both of our vehicles were wrecked as well. I've spent many days and nights wishing that we had not left Ohio.
On Sat we finally signed papers for a home and so hopfully will be able to move in by the end of the month. Things are looking up.